Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Lazy? Who Me?

My 8-year-old this month daughter and I had a very rare evening where it was just the two of us and we didn't have a million things to get done.  We had time to play gymnastics, dance in the kitchen and enjoy each other's company thoroughly.  While she was eating dinner Bruno Mars' "The Lazy Song" came on the radio.  It's a particular favorite of my kids because the music video features people wearing monkey masks.  It's a favorite of mine because I love the fantasy of having a day where I do absolutely nothing.  For those of you unfamiliar with the lyrics, here's the gist --  "Today I swear I'm not doing anything.  I just want to lay in my bed."

As we listened my daughter said "You'd never do that.  You're always doing something."

I laughed because she's absolutely right.  Aside from my type A-personality my single mother status has made it impossible for me to stop moving.

I thought a minute and said I'd probably lay around if I was really sick.  And then I admitted that even when I'm sick I still manage to get things done.  My daughter agreed and said "probably if you were in the hospital you would lay around.  No, you'd probably be texting."  Well nobody could accuse her of not paying attention to the crazy mom who's always floating around..she nailed it.  I would be texting, sending emails, and probably squeezing in a few work phone calls.

My mom never stops moving either.  (You'd think we'd both be thinner somehow...)  And I wondered what that said about the two of us and what it meant for my daughter.  We keep moving so that our family will have a clean home, clothes, food, wonderful birthday and holiday moments, and so much more.  But I'm thinking that in this world of ever increasing pressure and information overload we need to send another message too.  Sometimes you just need to spend a day in bed.  Sounds great -- now all I need to do is just schedule that in...

Here's the official video for viewing pleasure: (we can discuss my questionable parenting skills for letting my kids watch this at another time...)